

This approach works no matter how bad the circumstances are. You can either let the rain ruin your plans or you can turn lemons into lemonade and find a fun way to spend the day despite the rain.

For example, say you make plans to go on a picnic and then it rains. Your response will determine how your life evolves. When you’re proactive, you have the option to choose how to respond. Humans, on the other hand, can pause, reflect, and decide how to respond. When something happens to animals, they usually react in a pre-programmed way. One of the differences between humans and animals is our capacity for self-awareness. Take responsibility and make things happen. Don’t blame other people, conditions, or things. You choose if you are going to be successful or not. You choose if you are going to be happy or sad.

Habit 1: Be proactive about taking responsibility for your life. When you internalize these 7 habits and live according to them, you will live an effective life. Make sure you take time for yourself ( habit 7).Value the differences between people and be open to listening to and understanding them ( habit 6).Seek first to understand people and then to be understood ( habit 5).Always look for a win-win scenario and ensure everyone has a positive outcome ( habit 4).Prioritize by putting first things first ( habit 3).Begin every task with the desired outcome ( habit 2).

